revolutionnow
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Just read neils strauss latest book and would love to know your opinions on this lifestyle
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Would you ever agree with being in an open realtionship or aka swinger!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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That sounds like being a vegan but granting himself meat once in a while...whats the point of being vegan then?
zekko
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This is getting off topic, but it depends on why you are a vegan. If you have no moral objection to eating meat, but are instead following a vegan diet for health reasons, a little meat on occasion is not likely to hurt you.
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Well I meant the other meaning, I should have not used the vegan example.
You know when someone feels sick on the street and people scream if theres a medic around only to hear someone say "Im vegan", well thats the kind of people you want to leave alone.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
YawataNoKami
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Would you go down on your girlfriend after another man ejaculates in her?
PantyWhisperer
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I would not. Nor would I go down on her after I ejaculate in her. Cream pies are for comedy routines, not a meal.
Of course, I wouldn't go down on a woman who was menstruating, had a nasty yeast infection or a host of other pelvic centered maladies.
But that's just me.....
Do we have any choice? Unless you find a virgin and you marry her, she will be with other men.
Note that we have 3 types of sperm: egg seeking sperm, wall building sperm and sperm fighting sperm. It would appear other men before us dealt with this issue also.
My date last night is married but told me it is an open marriage. I don't really like it to be honest, but she's only 20 and working as a stripper now (thanks to him not supporting her), so I'm not going to kick her out of bed to f*ck the cat.
PantyWhisperer
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No - what the question poses is would you go down on your girlfriend, right after another man ejaculates in her. Big difference
My last date is married. She told me they have an open relationship (after f*cking me). Do you think she respects him? I would lose respect for her also, but she is only 20 so he messed up marrying a girl that young and beautiful.
She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PantyWhisperer
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That is quite a toxic blend of womanhood all wrapped up in that one. Wow. Spoiled before her sell-by date. Pity.