"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would you ever agree with being in an open realtionship or aka swinger!

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Just read neils strauss latest book and would love to know your opinions on this lifestyle
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not my thing. I know a few "swingers" though.
 

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That sounds like being a vegan but granting himself meat once in a while...whats the point of being vegan then?
 

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That sounds like being a vegan but granting himself meat once in a while...whats the point of being vegan then?
This is getting off topic, but it depends on why you are a vegan. If you have no moral objection to eating meat, but are instead following a vegan diet for health reasons, a little meat on occasion is not likely to hurt you.
 

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This is getting off topic, but it depends on why you are a vegan. If you have no moral objection to eating meat, but are instead following a vegan diet for health reasons, a little meat on occasion is not likely to hurt you.
Well I meant the other meaning, I should have not used the vegan example.

You know when someone feels sick on the street and people scream if theres a medic around only to hear someone say "Im vegan", well thats the kind of people you want to leave alone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you go down on your girlfriend after another man ejaculates in her?
I would not. Nor would I go down on her after I ejaculate in her. Cream pies are for comedy routines, not a meal.
Of course, I wouldn't go down on a woman who was menstruating, had a nasty yeast infection or a host of other pelvic centered maladies.

But that's just me.....
 

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Would you go down on your girlfriend after another man ejaculates in her?
Do we have any choice? Unless you find a virgin and you marry her, she will be with other men.

Note that we have 3 types of sperm: egg seeking sperm, wall building sperm and sperm fighting sperm. It would appear other men before us dealt with this issue also.

My date last night is married but told me it is an open marriage. I don't really like it to be honest, but she's only 20 and working as a stripper now (thanks to him not supporting her), so I'm not going to kick her out of bed to f*ck the cat.
 

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No - what the question poses is would you go down on your girlfriend, right after another man ejaculates in her. Big difference
 

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My last date is married. She told me they have an open relationship (after f*cking me). Do you think she respects him? I would lose respect for her also, but she is only 20 so he messed up marrying a girl that young and beautiful.

She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My last date is married. She told me they have an open relationship (after f*cking me). Do you think she respects him? I would lose respect for her also, but she is only 20 so he messed up marrying a girl that young and beautiful.

She comes with one strike though, cheating on husband. Huge red flag. Given the age, it's 95% likely to not last anyway. She is a Scorpio, bisexual, beautiful, about to turn 21, and a stripper. All are inherently untrustworthy in general.
That is quite a toxic blend of womanhood all wrapped up in that one. Wow. Spoiled before her sell-by date. Pity.
 
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