You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
better question, what would chuck Norris do?italostud said:What would Jesus do?
Most these women come from abused backgrounds in one way or another. Not that they aren't responsible for their own decisions, but their troubled childhoods and adolescence mixed with drugs, abusive/absent fathers gives some insight into what brought them into their occupation.blinkwatt said:Doing porn is the next step up for a stripper.
Look at how strippers are looked at by society,times that by 5,society disowns them.
I want to able to live with my future children & wife w/o my past haunting me,porn won't allow that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow really? I can't believe you have to spew Christian BS. What's the difference between normal sex and porn starts having sex? Nothing really... What is money anyways? It's just paper backed by "gold" which gives it value on the market.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What it basically boils down to is this:
When judgment day comes and trumpets sound, are you really prepared to defend the fact that you lived a life of taking money for sex? I'm not, no matter how well it pays or how many girls' tongues are lapping up my juices simultaneously.
I'd say, "How about I do 10 movies for $1,000 a piece and you just shoot me from the waist down?"avrilishot said:if a hot pornstar came up to you and said you are what we are looking for and you get paid 10,000 a movie plus wear a mask
what would you say?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
At first I thought the bangbus was real when it first came out I was like, damn these dudes are ballers!Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Two questions, Johnny:
1) If only a few guys out of 1,000 can actually shoot a porn scene...how do 18-24 year old dudes with normal sized pricks and fat old guys with hairy chests with small to average pricks make it into FFFM scenes?
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Johnny Soporno said:Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.
Visit www.MackDaddyDaycare.com or www.LADirectModels.com for a good selection of available 'talent'.
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.
D. Sanchez of BangBros is a dear friend and client of mine - we both howl our asses off at the number of people who TRULY BELIEVE that the **** is for real. Same with Sean from Milfhunter, etc - it's ACTING, guys!
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy
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Sounds like a sense of moral standards? Who would have" thunk" it, coming from you!Jariel said:Nope, not my thing at all.
I'm totally turned off by promiscuous women and instinctively see porn stars, strippers and prostitutes as "dirty" and repulsive.
If it was a girl of my choosing and I had say over what we did, then maybe...just maybe.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.