That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
better question, what would chuck Norris do?italostud said:What would Jesus do?
Most these women come from abused backgrounds in one way or another. Not that they aren't responsible for their own decisions, but their troubled childhoods and adolescence mixed with drugs, abusive/absent fathers gives some insight into what brought them into their occupation.blinkwatt said:Doing porn is the next step up for a stripper.
Look at how strippers are looked at by society,times that by 5,society disowns them.
I want to able to live with my future children & wife w/o my past haunting me,porn won't allow that.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Wow really? I can't believe you have to spew Christian BS. What's the difference between normal sex and porn starts having sex? Nothing really... What is money anyways? It's just paper backed by "gold" which gives it value on the market.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What it basically boils down to is this:
When judgment day comes and trumpets sound, are you really prepared to defend the fact that you lived a life of taking money for sex? I'm not, no matter how well it pays or how many girls' tongues are lapping up my juices simultaneously.
I'd say, "How about I do 10 movies for $1,000 a piece and you just shoot me from the waist down?"avrilishot said:if a hot pornstar came up to you and said you are what we are looking for and you get paid 10,000 a movie plus wear a mask
what would you say?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
At first I thought the bangbus was real when it first came out I was like, damn these dudes are ballers!Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Two questions, Johnny:
1) If only a few guys out of 1,000 can actually shoot a porn scene...how do 18-24 year old dudes with normal sized pricks and fat old guys with hairy chests with small to average pricks make it into FFFM scenes?
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Johnny Soporno said:Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.
Visit www.MackDaddyDaycare.com or www.LADirectModels.com for a good selection of available 'talent'.
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.
D. Sanchez of BangBros is a dear friend and client of mine - we both howl our asses off at the number of people who TRULY BELIEVE that the **** is for real. Same with Sean from Milfhunter, etc - it's ACTING, guys!
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Sounds like a sense of moral standards? Who would have" thunk" it, coming from you!Jariel said:Nope, not my thing at all.
I'm totally turned off by promiscuous women and instinctively see porn stars, strippers and prostitutes as "dirty" and repulsive.
If it was a girl of my choosing and I had say over what we did, then maybe...just maybe.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.