You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
better question, what would chuck Norris do?italostud said:What would Jesus do?
Most these women come from abused backgrounds in one way or another. Not that they aren't responsible for their own decisions, but their troubled childhoods and adolescence mixed with drugs, abusive/absent fathers gives some insight into what brought them into their occupation.blinkwatt said:Doing porn is the next step up for a stripper.
Look at how strippers are looked at by society,times that by 5,society disowns them.
I want to able to live with my future children & wife w/o my past haunting me,porn won't allow that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wow really? I can't believe you have to spew Christian BS. What's the difference between normal sex and porn starts having sex? Nothing really... What is money anyways? It's just paper backed by "gold" which gives it value on the market.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What it basically boils down to is this:
When judgment day comes and trumpets sound, are you really prepared to defend the fact that you lived a life of taking money for sex? I'm not, no matter how well it pays or how many girls' tongues are lapping up my juices simultaneously.
I'd say, "How about I do 10 movies for $1,000 a piece and you just shoot me from the waist down?"avrilishot said:if a hot pornstar came up to you and said you are what we are looking for and you get paid 10,000 a movie plus wear a mask
what would you say?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
At first I thought the bangbus was real when it first came out I was like, damn these dudes are ballers!Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Two questions, Johnny:
1) If only a few guys out of 1,000 can actually shoot a porn scene...how do 18-24 year old dudes with normal sized pricks and fat old guys with hairy chests with small to average pricks make it into FFFM scenes?
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.Deus ex Pianoforte said:and 2) Is there ANY real reality porn out there? I've seen some stuff that's made me even second guess myself, like the Hardcore Partying series or the Real-Life Crack Wh*re videos.
Johnny Soporno said:Generally they are the producers of the scene. For <$5000 I can basically get your three favorite professional porn stars to do anything you like with each other and you, hire a cameraman and an editor, and you'll be able to include that scene with a number of other more-commercial scenes in a compilation tape, or pipe it out to internet the week after it's shot, and earn back the 5k. Q.E.D.
Visit www.MackDaddyDaycare.com or www.LADirectModels.com for a good selection of available 'talent'.
Nope - nothing like it COULD exist, legally. Every performer must sign a model-release, accompanied by two state or federal government issued IDs, and receive 'consideration' (ie, pay) for their participation, or else the scenes may NEVER be aired/distributed.
D. Sanchez of BangBros is a dear friend and client of mine - we both howl our asses off at the number of people who TRULY BELIEVE that the **** is for real. Same with Sean from Milfhunter, etc - it's ACTING, guys!
Johnny Soporno
Worthy Playboy
http://www.myspace.com/JohnnySoporno
Sounds like a sense of moral standards? Who would have" thunk" it, coming from you!Jariel said:Nope, not my thing at all.
I'm totally turned off by promiscuous women and instinctively see porn stars, strippers and prostitutes as "dirty" and repulsive.
If it was a girl of my choosing and I had say over what we did, then maybe...just maybe.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.