"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Would you continue to go out with a girl..
- Thread starter mikey2012
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Nope. Doing that makes you a trick and means she has NO interest in you whatsoever.mikey2012 said:
CrimsonPanther
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i just wouldn't buy her the stuff she asks for.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I had a broad ask me the same thing, I shrugged it off as a simple classic cold case of gold digging.mikey2012 said:
Simply use her for enjoyment but nothing more than that. If it ends, find a new but never buy her **** unless you're already in a LTR of such matters but even then I would keep that to a limit
Unless it's for a holiday and she was specifically asked "what would you like for Christmas/your Birthday/Valentine's Day?"
Now, if you noticed that she wanted something, and she decides not to get it because she's on a budget...and you feel like being nice, okay, fine.
I cringe so hard when I hear about this nonsense of girls demanding things. Eww. Tacky.
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
No good woman would ask of anything from her man.
A man buys her things if he see's fit that it is necessary and within means.
You know, the obscenity censorship here is ridiculous. Between that and the daily post limit which has caused multiple pages from me to be lost forever, I am really wondering what I gain here.
In fact, see ya. Have good lives!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This ain't no Charity service!