"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Would you continue to go out with a girl..
- Thread starter mikey2012
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Nope. Doing that makes you a trick and means she has NO interest in you whatsoever.mikey2012 said:
CrimsonPanther
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i just wouldn't buy her the stuff she asks for.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I had a broad ask me the same thing, I shrugged it off as a simple classic cold case of gold digging.mikey2012 said:
Simply use her for enjoyment but nothing more than that. If it ends, find a new but never buy her **** unless you're already in a LTR of such matters but even then I would keep that to a limit
Unless it's for a holiday and she was specifically asked "what would you like for Christmas/your Birthday/Valentine's Day?"
Now, if you noticed that she wanted something, and she decides not to get it because she's on a budget...and you feel like being nice, okay, fine.
I cringe so hard when I hear about this nonsense of girls demanding things. Eww. Tacky.
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
No good woman would ask of anything from her man.
A man buys her things if he see's fit that it is necessary and within means.
You know, the obscenity censorship here is ridiculous. Between that and the daily post limit which has caused multiple pages from me to be lost forever, I am really wondering what I gain here.
In fact, see ya. Have good lives!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This ain't no Charity service!