"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Would you continue to go out with a girl..
- Thread starter mikey2012
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Nope. Doing that makes you a trick and means she has NO interest in you whatsoever.mikey2012 said:
CrimsonPanther
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i just wouldn't buy her the stuff she asks for.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I had a broad ask me the same thing, I shrugged it off as a simple classic cold case of gold digging.mikey2012 said:
Simply use her for enjoyment but nothing more than that. If it ends, find a new but never buy her **** unless you're already in a LTR of such matters but even then I would keep that to a limit
Unless it's for a holiday and she was specifically asked "what would you like for Christmas/your Birthday/Valentine's Day?"
Now, if you noticed that she wanted something, and she decides not to get it because she's on a budget...and you feel like being nice, okay, fine.
I cringe so hard when I hear about this nonsense of girls demanding things. Eww. Tacky.
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
No good woman would ask of anything from her man.
A man buys her things if he see's fit that it is necessary and within means.
You know, the obscenity censorship here is ridiculous. Between that and the daily post limit which has caused multiple pages from me to be lost forever, I am really wondering what I gain here.
In fact, see ya. Have good lives!
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This ain't no Charity service!