"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Would You Consider These Are Serious Red Flags?
- Thread starter soulforge
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Cloudtopsun2100
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Ditch her now - with negatives like that, who cares about her positives?
soulforge
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I already ditched her.. Well she certainly has the victim mentality, not once has she tried to accept any responsibility for anything... also i defo could sense her playing power games..Cloudtopsun2100 said:
The biggest red flag for me was, when she vanished for 6 days... when she got back in touch with me, she just blamed me for not bieng intouch..
And she said goodbye.. notice she did not try to salvage the relationship, or make any attempt to talk to me... she wished me good luck and said bye... like an idiot i started talking to her again..
i should have ditched her for that
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devilkingx2
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in retrospect, #4 isn't much of a red flag either, assuming there is/was something legitimately wrong with the restaurant you went to, and assuming she didn't blame you unless it was your fault.soulforge said:
#5 is an enormous red flag, sort of. there are a lot of girls who you won't ever hear from again if you don't hit them up all the time, and a lot of them play the victim too. it's annoying and unpleasant as hell and idk how you could stomach it, but hey atleast she's not crazy