Would you consider dating a single mom of 2 kids?

[amaterasu]

Hi Dj’s

I got a match from tinder and the quick short chat was pretty going well.

She’s willing to meet with me.

I am open to any suggestions/precautions before meeting with this woman.

 

[BJP1991]

Hi Dj’s

I got a match from tinder and the quick short chat was pretty going well.

She’s willing to meet with me.

I am open to any suggestions/precautions before meeting with this woman.

Depends how old you and she are. Also depends what you’re looking for.

Women like this are sometimes just looking for a provider - I say EFF that noise.

I would not. Unless you’re cool being a beta-male provider and not having someone who is more openly available or financially burdened, like any girl who doesn’t have a baby daddy somewhere

 

[Chev.Chelios]

As a friend and bang buddy but if you get involved with her personaly most likely the worst decision youve ever made.

Ejectulate and evacuate..

Roast em and then ghost em..

You dont wana know the legal, finicial and social hell a single mother can do

 

[amaterasu]

As a friend and bang buddy but if you get involved with her personaly most likely the worst decision youve ever made.

Ejectulate and evacuate..

Roast em and then ghost em..

You dont wana know the legal, finicial and social hell a single mother can do

Thanks, i appreciate that.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Ive seen what they do first hand for years.
Especially when their hot.

They have the dads of their kids pay their whole way with complete coercion..

They have the government in bed with them.

Cops and white knights will go to any length to protect them(even when there in the wrong) and lol theyre usually 95% in the wrong.

They carry crazy victim complexs about their whole lives.. raising kids by them selves, bfs cheating on them, dad being a dead beat, their hard childhood.. never ending complaining.

Heres the big one, if you cross them they will pull the sexual molestation of their kids card on you. If they do this automaticley you are 1000% guilty before being charged. And your life is sooo fvcked.

Alot more things i can write to but just be careful lololol

 

[logicallefty]

No more single mommies with young kids for me. Current GF kids are 18, 21, 24 and that’s ok. But my last GF had two kids under 18 and the relationship was a lost cause.

- Want to go out ? Gotta include the kids.

- Ok fine, Want to parent the kids? Nope, your too much of a strict meany.

- Want to watch a movie at home? Can’t do that kids always hogging TV or too much of a distraction to enjoy the flick.

- Why are you giving your kid favoritism over my kid ?

- why did you take your kid out for pizza and not invite everyone?

Forget it!! It’s NOT worth it!

 

[MatureDJ]

The only way I would countenance this is if I had children of my own. Otherwise, I'll let my interminglings with single mommies be on a completely transactional basis (e.g., strippers, prostitutes).

 

[Billtx49]

If you’re willing to accept last place behind her kids on her love and top priorities list then it could work. It won’t seem that way in the early stages because priorities can temporarily shift, but that’s the real deal. It was an Exit for me under those conditions though.…

 

[Alvafe]

never dating, maybe a lay or 2, nothing more, also don't matter the number of children, single moms are always in never date colum

btw tinder matchs and talks means little, you consider "dating" someone after the first lay, before that is not even a plate, you are just talking, you kids are strange serious, acting like woman

 

[Bible_Belt]

The ads on pof by preggo chicks were always hilarious. Let's have a baby together that isn't yours! On the third date!

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

If the kids require a babysitter it's no dice for me.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Funniest thing is meeting single moms out at night with their kids at their parents or fathers while their out ****ing around with tatted up drug dealer thugs running the train on them lolol

 

[marmel75]

Depends how old you and she are. Also depends what you’re looking for.

Women like this are sometimes just looking for a provider - I say EFF that noise.

I would not. Unless you’re cool being a beta-male provider and not having someone who is more openly available or financially burdened, like any girl who doesn’t have a baby daddy somewhere

Ive found this is not always the case...I dated 2 who literally paid for almost everything without me asking. Depends how much valuable they view you as.

 

[Kotaix]

The only time I find it acceptable to date a single mom is if you're a single dad as well, or she's a widow.

Single moms will do and say almost anything under the sun to hook you. Women always say they don't need no man, but that's a load of sh!t.

I've been in the same position as you, it's really hard to think with the big head when she has a firm yet jiggly rump roast... ok enough thinking about dat ass...

There's two problems: First, if you get with her, you'll end up raising another guy's offspring which is absolutely beta. Second, as some have already said, you will always come last and the child will never respect you because you can't discipline the brat because you're not it's dad.

And then there's the legal ramifications. If you get into an LTR with her you could end up in a common law situation and paying child support for a kid that isn't even yours if you break up.

It's just not worth it, even if you're just dating her to have fun it's kind of a waste of time unless you never intend to get married in the first place. Def don't meet the kids.

 

[Trump]

Hi Dj’s

I got a match from tinder and the quick short chat was pretty going well.

She’s willing to meet with me.

Girl got pregnant by a man, had a baby. Girl got pregnant a 2nd time by a different man had a 2nd baby. Two babies, two fathers.

Of course it’s going well and she’s “willing” to meet you. Either she wants to:

a) discard her kids and runaway to a tropical paradise with you to make sweet love to you, or;
b) have you raise her kids as your own,

My guess is (b), but who knows, maybe you are a top dog and it’s (a)

I am open to any suggestions/precautions before meeting with this woman.

Keep her as a sex toy.

Go find Ms. Right.

 

[RickTheToad]

Hi Dj’s

I got a match from tinder and the quick short chat was pretty going well.

She’s willing to meet with me.

I am open to any suggestions/precautions before meeting with this woman.

@amaterasu, don't be fvckin' stupid.

 

[RickTheToad]

Keep her as a sex toy.

Go find Ms. Right.

Ugh, no. That's how this dude can get the oppertunity to become babydaddy # 2.

 

[Robert28]

It’ll be the hardest sex you ever worked for in your life. Single moms got this rap about being easy to lay, not in my experience. You’ll end up friend zoned, beta provider, she will dump you when you least expect it, etc. I could hookup with a fvcking model before I could have success with a single mom, I have no clue why. My game sucks with them but that’s not really a bad thing, saves my ass.lol

 

[Desdinova]

If you wanna like up a few SMs to fukk, then go ahead. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship with a hot woman and are just accepting the kids as a price that comes with the territory, stay the fukk away from her.

 

[FMCSMT]

Ive found this is not always the case...I dated 2 who literally paid for almost everything without me asking. Depends how much valuable they view you as.

Same. 2 of them like that.