"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was teasing my gf. than she said i have to treat her nice in a joking way. I said really says who? she is like its in the manual. i'm like funny i don't remember writing that when i made the manual.

than i seriously(but to tease her by putting the pressure on her) said, so when do i not treat you nice?!!

she said got all serious and said.

You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games.

than i teased her about her playing games...

and she got a bit quiet.

SO.... which brings me to ask. Should i really take what she said to heart.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Boy, overuse of C/F really helps to filter out reality, doesn't it?
 
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Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
 
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Scars said:
Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
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what does GTFO mean? How do I build comfort?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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