"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was teasing my gf. than she said i have to treat her nice in a joking way. I said really says who? she is like its in the manual. i'm like funny i don't remember writing that when i made the manual.

than i seriously(but to tease her by putting the pressure on her) said, so when do i not treat you nice?!!

she said got all serious and said.

You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games.

than i teased her about her playing games...

and she got a bit quiet.

SO.... which brings me to ask. Should i really take what she said to heart.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Boy, overuse of C/F really helps to filter out reality, doesn't it?
 
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Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
 
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Scars said:
Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
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what does GTFO mean? How do I build comfort?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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