Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Would you believe this?

I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
I was teasing my gf. than she said i have to treat her nice in a joking way. I said really says who? she is like its in the manual. i'm like funny i don't remember writing that when i made the manual.

than i seriously(but to tease her by putting the pressure on her) said, so when do i not treat you nice?!!

she said got all serious and said.

You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games.

than i teased her about her playing games...

and she got a bit quiet.

SO.... which brings me to ask. Should i really take what she said to heart.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

F

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Boy, overuse of C/F really helps to filter out reality, doesn't it?
 
Scars

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,126
Reaction score
1,002
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
 
I

inzone50

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 11, 2007
Messages
186
Reaction score
0
Scars said:
Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
Click to expand...
what does GTFO mean? How do I build comfort?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top