"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was teasing my gf. than she said i have to treat her nice in a joking way. I said really says who? she is like its in the manual. i'm like funny i don't remember writing that when i made the manual.

than i seriously(but to tease her by putting the pressure on her) said, so when do i not treat you nice?!!

she said got all serious and said.

You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games.

than i teased her about her playing games...

and she got a bit quiet.

SO.... which brings me to ask. Should i really take what she said to heart.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boy, overuse of C/F really helps to filter out reality, doesn't it?
 
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Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
 
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Scars said:
Um, "You are a GREAT boyfriend. Seriously i am so happy you are my boyfriend. No games." that's your cue dude. When you reach a high point like that, that's when you GTFO or slow it down a bit. Teasing is to build attraction.. she's obviously attracted.. to go on with the teasing just makes you look ignorant and like YOUR the one playing games. Now it's time to build comfort.. make her trust you.
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what does GTFO mean? How do I build comfort?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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