"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I went to this high-end strip club last night with a friend. This stripper came to me and said I was really cute. I told her that I bet she says that to everyone. We talked for a while and then she said she was really attracted to me and all of a sudden, she started kissing me (I mean tongue and everything). The two kisses lasted like 5 seconds each.

I didn't think of it at the moment, but now I am concerned about HIV and ****. Damn, I am so paranoid when it comes to such stuff. Would you be concerned if you were in my shoes?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am confused. Are you talking about the kiss or about the prospect of having sex with her relative to your concern about HIV?

If its the kiss, don't worry. The chances of that occurring are low to non-existant. If its the prospect of having sex with her, only you can determine if it is worth the risk but definitely wear a condom if you decided to do it.
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
I am confused. Are you talking about the kiss or about the prospect of having sex with her relative to your concern about HIV?

If its the kiss, don't worry. The chances of that occurring are low to non-existant. If its the prospect of having sex with her, only you can determine if it is worth the risk but definitely wear a condom if you decided to do it.
Thanks for the reply man. Oh definitely not sex. Thank God that didn't happen or I would be dead by now :woo: I am just concerned about the kiss.
 

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So a stripper came up to you and kiss you and the first thing you think about is HIV? haha nothing wrong with that but it's just funny to me.
 

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HIV you shouldn't worry about.
Think: cold sores, and genital warts. Some STDs u can pick up from kissing. can't remember which, but i do get test every year for all of them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Lawyer101

I didn't think of it at the moment, but now I am concerned about HIV and ****. Damn, I am so paranoid when it comes to such stuff.
I'd say that's the bigger issue, that you are causing yourself to worry so unnecessarily. What's up with that?
 

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Herpes Type I is what is most likely to be transmitted through a kiss. There has to be a core sore present, but sometimes women cover them up with lipstick. You are almost certainly fine, though. Don't do it again if you have any sort of sore or cut in your mouth.
 

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$hit, man, she's probably cleaner than you are. I thnk this is pretty much a summation of YOUR insecurities.... have you ever worried about HIV from kissing any other girl the first time you kissed them? Jesus... you need to calm down a little!
 

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some study had said something to the effect that for you to get the chance of getting aids from kissing is raised to 1 in 10 million after you have swallowed something ridiculous like 30 gallons of saliver from the other persons in one sitting.. so ummmm yeah!! Not to worry!
 

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What a silly post, I can only assume it's a troll as I've seen many variations on this post including 'I had a dance and noticed blood on my jeans, do I have HIV'.

On a more helpful note, if anyone thinks they may have contracted a venereal disease, see a doctor not a Forum.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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