"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you be concerned?

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So I went to this high-end strip club last night with a friend. This stripper came to me and said I was really cute. I told her that I bet she says that to everyone. We talked for a while and then she said she was really attracted to me and all of a sudden, she started kissing me (I mean tongue and everything). The two kisses lasted like 5 seconds each.

I didn't think of it at the moment, but now I am concerned about HIV and ****. Damn, I am so paranoid when it comes to such stuff. Would you be concerned if you were in my shoes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am confused. Are you talking about the kiss or about the prospect of having sex with her relative to your concern about HIV?

If its the kiss, don't worry. The chances of that occurring are low to non-existant. If its the prospect of having sex with her, only you can determine if it is worth the risk but definitely wear a condom if you decided to do it.
 

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Originally posted by SexPDX
I am confused. Are you talking about the kiss or about the prospect of having sex with her relative to your concern about HIV?

If its the kiss, don't worry. The chances of that occurring are low to non-existant. If its the prospect of having sex with her, only you can determine if it is worth the risk but definitely wear a condom if you decided to do it.
Thanks for the reply man. Oh definitely not sex. Thank God that didn't happen or I would be dead by now :woo: I am just concerned about the kiss.
 

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So a stripper came up to you and kiss you and the first thing you think about is HIV? haha nothing wrong with that but it's just funny to me.
 

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HIV you shouldn't worry about.
Think: cold sores, and genital warts. Some STDs u can pick up from kissing. can't remember which, but i do get test every year for all of them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Lawyer101

I didn't think of it at the moment, but now I am concerned about HIV and ****. Damn, I am so paranoid when it comes to such stuff.
I'd say that's the bigger issue, that you are causing yourself to worry so unnecessarily. What's up with that?
 

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Herpes Type I is what is most likely to be transmitted through a kiss. There has to be a core sore present, but sometimes women cover them up with lipstick. You are almost certainly fine, though. Don't do it again if you have any sort of sore or cut in your mouth.
 

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$hit, man, she's probably cleaner than you are. I thnk this is pretty much a summation of YOUR insecurities.... have you ever worried about HIV from kissing any other girl the first time you kissed them? Jesus... you need to calm down a little!
 

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some study had said something to the effect that for you to get the chance of getting aids from kissing is raised to 1 in 10 million after you have swallowed something ridiculous like 30 gallons of saliver from the other persons in one sitting.. so ummmm yeah!! Not to worry!
 

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What a silly post, I can only assume it's a troll as I've seen many variations on this post including 'I had a dance and noticed blood on my jeans, do I have HIV'.

On a more helpful note, if anyone thinks they may have contracted a venereal disease, see a doctor not a Forum.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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