"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Would you **** a porn star ?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have a friend who had a chance. His sister is friends with a porn star. She made the introduction and it happened. My friend enjoyed the sex but said dealing with her other than sex was annoying. She was flakier than even the average woman with responding to texts. Additionally, through that one porn star, he was able to put together a 3some with 2 porn stars. He said the 2nd porn star who was part of the 3 way was a sloppy drunk and likely an alcoholic.
 

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Many are escorts. So it'll be a similar deal. Who says she'll like you? Who says she'll desire you?
This is probably the most common way in which the majority of men have had or would have the opportunity to have sex with a porn star.

The typical man isn't encountering porn stars in his daily life. While the porn industry in the United States is centered around the Los Angeles area, many women in porn live in other parts of the U.S. and go to Los Angeles to shoot their scenes. There are women who reside full time in the Los Angeles area. Metro Los Angeles is so enormous that you could live in the area for many years and never encounter a porn star. A lot of porn stars who live outside of Los Angeles aren't living in smaller areas with populations of less than 100,000 or 200,000.

Pre-COVID, most men did not go to bars/nightclubs that a porn star or multiple porn stars frequented. The same could be said for gyms, as most porn stars have a regular fitness regimen. The odds of randomly running into a porn star at a grocery store or mall were small pre-COVID and probably even smaller now. Additionally, a lot of porn stars are not wearing much makeup off set, so it is possible that a man would encounter a porn star at a supermarket and not even recognize her.

I have a friend who had a chance. His sister is friends with a porn star. She made the introduction and it happened. My friend enjoyed the sex but said dealing with her other than sex was annoying. She was flakier than even the average woman with responding to texts. Additionally, through that one porn star, he was able to put together a 3some with 2 porn stars. He said the 2nd porn star who was part of the 3 way was a sloppy drunk and likely an alcoholic.
My friend figured out the access thing through social circle. In many ways, this is no different than the regular world. Putting together something with a regular woman is easier through social circle than either cold approaching or app swiping. Data points are showing that fewer people are meeting their significant other through their networks of friends or acquaintances, a trend that has been going on since the 1980s. It wasn't until relationships formed in the early 2010s that social networks fell out of the top spot as the most common way to form an extended relationship.

Since porn stars is a niche that's different than the average woman, I would think that social networks would become more important. Porn stars are not posting profiles on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. They could be cold approached in real life, but it's not likely to happen. If you happen to know someone who knows a porn star in real life, you're ahead of the pack, which is often thirsty guys sliding into their DMs on Instagram or Twitter.

I would, because I enjoy sex. That's as far as I would go, would never want a relationship.
That was my friend's experience. He considered his porn star sex to be the best sex he ever had.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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This is probably the most common way in which the majority of men have had or would have the opportunity to have sex with a porn star.

The typical man isn't encountering porn stars in his daily life. While the porn industry in the United States is centered around the Los Angeles area, many women in porn live in other parts of the U.S. and go to Los Angeles to shoot their scenes. There are women who reside full time in the Los Angeles area. Metro Los Angeles is so enormous that you could live in the area for many years and never encounter a porn star. A lot of porn stars who live outside of Los Angeles aren't living in smaller areas with populations of less than 100,000 or 200,000.

Pre-COVID, most men did not go to bars/nightclubs that a porn star or multiple porn stars frequented. The same could be said for gyms, as most porn stars have a regular fitness regimen. The odds of randomly running into a porn star at a grocery store or mall were small pre-COVID and probably even smaller now. Additionally, a lot of porn stars are not wearing much makeup off set, so it is possible that a man would encounter a porn star at a supermarket and not even recognize her.



My friend figured out the access thing through social circle. In many ways, this is no different than the regular world. Putting together something with a regular woman is easier through social circle than either cold approaching or app swiping. Data points are showing that fewer people are meeting their significant other through their networks of friends or acquaintances, a trend that has been going on since the 1980s. It wasn't until relationships formed in the early 2010s that social networks fell out of the top spot as the most common way to form an extended relationship.

Since porn stars is a niche that's different than the average woman, I would think that social networks would become more important. Porn stars are not posting profiles on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. They could be cold approached in real life, but it's not likely to happen. If you happen to know someone who knows a porn star in real life, you're ahead of the pack, which is often thirsty guys sliding into their DMs on Instagram or Twitter.



That was my friend's experience. He considered his porn star sex to be the best sex he ever had.
Some fans had bad sex with their favorite star and in their "fan" mind it was magical
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she was doing like a fan video, where she would have to like put on a show and really go for broke, that would be dope, but otherwise, I cant see a reason why a woman like this would have a good attitude lol.
 

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Your internal ego boost and inner circle popularity status elevation via bragging rights would be well worth the experience. ……
My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.

Some fans had bad sex with their favorite star and in their "fan" mind it was magical
He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
 

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My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.



He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
Alot of folks have shytty sex or get to svck a famous musician or rappers c0ck, and their imaginations blow it up to supernatural levels.
 

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My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.



He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
5 days. Good deal.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sure why not, the reality is most chicks **** and chuck to similar degrees if not more than pornstars ...it's just they don't record/are way less physically gifted & talented/don't get paid/and typically don't openly let their bf's know they are phuckin other dudes.
 

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Depends on where she's from. A high end pornstar in top industry circuits is cleaner than the plain Jane.

I'll still wrap it.

Shabby wannabe pornstars in homemade films are probably laden with STDs. No can do.
 

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If she was doing like a fan video, where she would have to like put on a show and really go for broke, that would be dope, but otherwise, I cant see a reason why a woman like this would have a good attitude lol.
A lot of girls who do porn are also youtubers, twitch streamers or active on social media.

Theres a ton of them who seem like funny likeable people with interesting hobbies (playing video games)
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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