"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you **** a porn star ?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a friend who had a chance. His sister is friends with a porn star. She made the introduction and it happened. My friend enjoyed the sex but said dealing with her other than sex was annoying. She was flakier than even the average woman with responding to texts. Additionally, through that one porn star, he was able to put together a 3some with 2 porn stars. He said the 2nd porn star who was part of the 3 way was a sloppy drunk and likely an alcoholic.
 

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Many are escorts. So it'll be a similar deal. Who says she'll like you? Who says she'll desire you?
This is probably the most common way in which the majority of men have had or would have the opportunity to have sex with a porn star.

The typical man isn't encountering porn stars in his daily life. While the porn industry in the United States is centered around the Los Angeles area, many women in porn live in other parts of the U.S. and go to Los Angeles to shoot their scenes. There are women who reside full time in the Los Angeles area. Metro Los Angeles is so enormous that you could live in the area for many years and never encounter a porn star. A lot of porn stars who live outside of Los Angeles aren't living in smaller areas with populations of less than 100,000 or 200,000.

Pre-COVID, most men did not go to bars/nightclubs that a porn star or multiple porn stars frequented. The same could be said for gyms, as most porn stars have a regular fitness regimen. The odds of randomly running into a porn star at a grocery store or mall were small pre-COVID and probably even smaller now. Additionally, a lot of porn stars are not wearing much makeup off set, so it is possible that a man would encounter a porn star at a supermarket and not even recognize her.

I have a friend who had a chance. His sister is friends with a porn star. She made the introduction and it happened. My friend enjoyed the sex but said dealing with her other than sex was annoying. She was flakier than even the average woman with responding to texts. Additionally, through that one porn star, he was able to put together a 3some with 2 porn stars. He said the 2nd porn star who was part of the 3 way was a sloppy drunk and likely an alcoholic.
My friend figured out the access thing through social circle. In many ways, this is no different than the regular world. Putting together something with a regular woman is easier through social circle than either cold approaching or app swiping. Data points are showing that fewer people are meeting their significant other through their networks of friends or acquaintances, a trend that has been going on since the 1980s. It wasn't until relationships formed in the early 2010s that social networks fell out of the top spot as the most common way to form an extended relationship.

Since porn stars is a niche that's different than the average woman, I would think that social networks would become more important. Porn stars are not posting profiles on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. They could be cold approached in real life, but it's not likely to happen. If you happen to know someone who knows a porn star in real life, you're ahead of the pack, which is often thirsty guys sliding into their DMs on Instagram or Twitter.

I would, because I enjoy sex. That's as far as I would go, would never want a relationship.
That was my friend's experience. He considered his porn star sex to be the best sex he ever had.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is probably the most common way in which the majority of men have had or would have the opportunity to have sex with a porn star.

The typical man isn't encountering porn stars in his daily life. While the porn industry in the United States is centered around the Los Angeles area, many women in porn live in other parts of the U.S. and go to Los Angeles to shoot their scenes. There are women who reside full time in the Los Angeles area. Metro Los Angeles is so enormous that you could live in the area for many years and never encounter a porn star. A lot of porn stars who live outside of Los Angeles aren't living in smaller areas with populations of less than 100,000 or 200,000.

Pre-COVID, most men did not go to bars/nightclubs that a porn star or multiple porn stars frequented. The same could be said for gyms, as most porn stars have a regular fitness regimen. The odds of randomly running into a porn star at a grocery store or mall were small pre-COVID and probably even smaller now. Additionally, a lot of porn stars are not wearing much makeup off set, so it is possible that a man would encounter a porn star at a supermarket and not even recognize her.



My friend figured out the access thing through social circle. In many ways, this is no different than the regular world. Putting together something with a regular woman is easier through social circle than either cold approaching or app swiping. Data points are showing that fewer people are meeting their significant other through their networks of friends or acquaintances, a trend that has been going on since the 1980s. It wasn't until relationships formed in the early 2010s that social networks fell out of the top spot as the most common way to form an extended relationship.

Since porn stars is a niche that's different than the average woman, I would think that social networks would become more important. Porn stars are not posting profiles on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. They could be cold approached in real life, but it's not likely to happen. If you happen to know someone who knows a porn star in real life, you're ahead of the pack, which is often thirsty guys sliding into their DMs on Instagram or Twitter.



That was my friend's experience. He considered his porn star sex to be the best sex he ever had.
Some fans had bad sex with their favorite star and in their "fan" mind it was magical
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If she was doing like a fan video, where she would have to like put on a show and really go for broke, that would be dope, but otherwise, I cant see a reason why a woman like this would have a good attitude lol.
 

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Your internal ego boost and inner circle popularity status elevation via bragging rights would be well worth the experience. ……
My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.

Some fans had bad sex with their favorite star and in their "fan" mind it was magical
He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
 

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My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.



He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
Alot of folks have shytty sex or get to svck a famous musician or rappers c0ck, and their imaginations blow it up to supernatural levels.
 

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My friend got some pretty big accolades for the porn star sex, esepcially the 3some with 2 porn stars.



He had sex with one of the porn stars a minimum of 5 separate days, and then there was the 3some with 2 porn stars. The sex probably was not low quality, otherwise I can't imagine the number of repeat performances.
5 days. Good deal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sure why not, the reality is most chicks **** and chuck to similar degrees if not more than pornstars ...it's just they don't record/are way less physically gifted & talented/don't get paid/and typically don't openly let their bf's know they are phuckin other dudes.
 

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Depends on where she's from. A high end pornstar in top industry circuits is cleaner than the plain Jane.

I'll still wrap it.

Shabby wannabe pornstars in homemade films are probably laden with STDs. No can do.
 

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If she was doing like a fan video, where she would have to like put on a show and really go for broke, that would be dope, but otherwise, I cant see a reason why a woman like this would have a good attitude lol.
A lot of girls who do porn are also youtubers, twitch streamers or active on social media.

Theres a ton of them who seem like funny likeable people with interesting hobbies (playing video games)
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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