"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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would this be a Turnoff to a Woman?

cola

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Me and my broski decided to do Some pushup...
so we got a deck of Cards and played the pushop game .... This was invented in Jail. Basicaly you grab a deck and whatever card you get is how many pushups you do..

PGW he is about 160 and in 240 So I held my own but naturally me being heavier my arms went into failure first now any guy who Worksout Knows that a guy 240 and doing 120-130 pushup reps is pretty awesome but a female would only reason " wow he did more" and not factor in a huge weight difference..

So the gist of my question is .. would your girl seeing your workout partner do like 50 more reps than you be equivalent to seeing your guy get beat up or something?
Just wondering
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you believe women think you are the strongest guy in the world?

No.

I've seen men who couldn't even do more than 2 push ups having nice gfs. muscles is a big plus when referring to women, but it's not as much as we men think it is! Most women, despise a guy who is over buffed!

And btw, perfect is boring!
 

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Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can do 1000 push ups with my junk.....that is all my ladies care about. Abe
 

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The answer? Depends on the girl. Stupid, young, immature girls who don't know shyt about working out? Yes, you just lost face, most likely. Especially if she makes a joke about it and you get defensive or butthurt.

There's your answer
 

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cola said:
Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
If you're serious about working out, go to a gym.

Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
I'm not attacking your character, I'm just saying in answer to your question yes, this is probably a big turn off for a woman.

But if you're banging her and you don't need approval, what are you worried about?
 
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