"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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would this be a Turnoff to a Woman?

cola

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Me and my broski decided to do Some pushup...
so we got a deck of Cards and played the pushop game .... This was invented in Jail. Basicaly you grab a deck and whatever card you get is how many pushups you do..

PGW he is about 160 and in 240 So I held my own but naturally me being heavier my arms went into failure first now any guy who Worksout Knows that a guy 240 and doing 120-130 pushup reps is pretty awesome but a female would only reason " wow he did more" and not factor in a huge weight difference..

So the gist of my question is .. would your girl seeing your workout partner do like 50 more reps than you be equivalent to seeing your guy get beat up or something?
Just wondering
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanit0

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Do you believe women think you are the strongest guy in the world?

No.

I've seen men who couldn't even do more than 2 push ups having nice gfs. muscles is a big plus when referring to women, but it's not as much as we men think it is! Most women, despise a guy who is over buffed!

And btw, perfect is boring!
 

cola

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Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I can do 1000 push ups with my junk.....that is all my ladies care about. Abe
 

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The answer? Depends on the girl. Stupid, young, immature girls who don't know shyt about working out? Yes, you just lost face, most likely. Especially if she makes a joke about it and you get defensive or butthurt.

There's your answer
 

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cola said:
Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
If you're serious about working out, go to a gym.

Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
I'm not attacking your character, I'm just saying in answer to your question yes, this is probably a big turn off for a woman.

But if you're banging her and you don't need approval, what are you worried about?
 
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