"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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would this be a Turnoff to a Woman?

cola

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Me and my broski decided to do Some pushup...
so we got a deck of Cards and played the pushop game .... This was invented in Jail. Basicaly you grab a deck and whatever card you get is how many pushups you do..

PGW he is about 160 and in 240 So I held my own but naturally me being heavier my arms went into failure first now any guy who Worksout Knows that a guy 240 and doing 120-130 pushup reps is pretty awesome but a female would only reason " wow he did more" and not factor in a huge weight difference..

So the gist of my question is .. would your girl seeing your workout partner do like 50 more reps than you be equivalent to seeing your guy get beat up or something?
Just wondering
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonJuanit0

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Do you believe women think you are the strongest guy in the world?

No.

I've seen men who couldn't even do more than 2 push ups having nice gfs. muscles is a big plus when referring to women, but it's not as much as we men think it is! Most women, despise a guy who is over buffed!

And btw, perfect is boring!
 

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Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can do 1000 push ups with my junk.....that is all my ladies care about. Abe
 

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The answer? Depends on the girl. Stupid, young, immature girls who don't know shyt about working out? Yes, you just lost face, most likely. Especially if she makes a joke about it and you get defensive or butthurt.

There's your answer
 

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cola said:
Approval seeking.. wtf r u talking about..
Am i not suppose to get a workout in for the day because a girl is around?
If you're serious about working out, go to a gym.

Answer the question and stop trying to attack my character

I already bang her on a regular basis.. so why would i need more approval than that? I just wanted a pump for the day
I'm not attacking your character, I'm just saying in answer to your question yes, this is probably a big turn off for a woman.

But if you're banging her and you don't need approval, what are you worried about?
 
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