You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It seems to be working pretty well. I add a carb up every fourth day at night .Warboss Alex said:The true test is to try it and see.
However I wouldn't recommend it. Moderate-ish carbs + very low fats + low calories = recipe for catabolism (for most people).
I would increase fats and cycle carbs according to training needs (i.e. low carbs on offdays, more carbs on training days around the workout, maybe a few more carbs after a hard squat/deadlift session in the form of addition carb/cheat meals).
at 36 you won't be able to tolerate as many carbs as someone who is 26 unless you are fairly lean (in which case why you trying to cut?
But it also depends on what state of bodyfat you're at now, what you currently eat, and how you currently train.