"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would it be wierd to message her

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Yesterday I added a girl on snapchat through the friend suggestions which she accepted right away.

The thing is this girl used to be one of my friends GF a few years back, i only briefly know her ( saw her a couple of times when she was with my mate).

I feel like it would be awkward if i texted her out of the blue just like that. At first I thought about waiting to see if she responds to some of my snapchats to monitor her interest.
Maybe you guys have some ideas how I could reach out without appearing cringy
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Prodoge said:
Yesterday I added a girl on snapchat through the friend suggestions which she accepted right away.

The thing is this girl used to be one of my friends GF a few years back, i only briefly know her ( saw her a couple of times when she was with my mate).

I feel like it would be awkward if i texted her out of the blue just like that. At first I thought about waiting to see if she responds to some of my snapchats to monitor her interest.
Maybe you guys have some ideas how I could reach out without appearing cringy
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Ok fair enough but it was over 3 years ago and as far as i know she was in other relationship (s) since then. Plus i rarely see him nowadays since highshool is over.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bro code.
Check in with your friend. If he genuinely doesn't appear hesitant, go for it.

I personally avoid these situations because there are so many other girls out there.
 
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darksprezzatura said:
Bro code.
Check in with your friend. If he genuinely doesn't appear hesitant, go for it.

Personally I avoid these situations because there are so many other girls out there.
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Sure thing i don't want to annoy him, I just saw the opportunity and thought why not
 
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how good of a bro? are we talking outter circle acquaintance or are we talking your bros you chill with daily? makes a big diff.


If it was a real bro you shouldnt have even added the hoe.


otherwise, go ahead and proceed as you wish. no need to ask permission thats beta chit.
 
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Julian said:
how good of a bro? are we talking outter circle acquaintance or are we talking your bros you chill with daily? makes a big diff.


If it was a real bro you shouldnt have even added the hoe.


otherwise, go ahead and proceed as you wish. no need to ask permission thats beta chit.
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Well we saw each other daily 3 years ago in high school. Since then it has fidled out and i only see him rarely, last time was at my birthday back in april.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Prodoge said:
Well we saw each other daily 3 years ago in high school. Since then it has fidled out and i only see him rarely, last time was at my birthday back in april.
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She hasn't been with him for a few years and you rarely see him. She's fair game now.
 
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How would you start a conversation then ?
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Let's get together for drinks and catch up. (old friend or acquaintance mode) She will let you know if it's doable.
Don't get stuck talking about the past if you get the date though. Go into regular first date mode asap.
 
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billtx49 said:
Let's get together for drinks and catch up. (old friend or acquaintance mode) She will let you know if it's doable.
Don't get stuck talking about the past if you get the date though. Go into regular first date mode asap.
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Welp i messaged her, lets see what she has to say
 
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Prodoge said:
How would you start a conversation then ?
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Long time no see.....how have you been?

If she is interested, she'll pick up the convo. If she starts asking questions showing interest, ask her to drinks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Woman can be a bit weird when it comes to texting.

I briefly met a Chinese lady about a month ago in the street with a mutual acquaintance. I sensed from her that she was interested in meeting me.

Cue forward two weeks, and I finally bump into her on the street again. I stop here, say hello, and get her number. Why not right?

Text her something like 'Hi.. me here.. and how was the event you were going to?'

No reply. Radio silence for two weeks. Oh well, another one bites the dust I suppose.

Then out of the blue, she invites me to a small concert going on.
 
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