"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would it be wierd to message her

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Yesterday I added a girl on snapchat through the friend suggestions which she accepted right away.

The thing is this girl used to be one of my friends GF a few years back, i only briefly know her ( saw her a couple of times when she was with my mate).

I feel like it would be awkward if i texted her out of the blue just like that. At first I thought about waiting to see if she responds to some of my snapchats to monitor her interest.
Maybe you guys have some ideas how I could reach out without appearing cringy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Prodoge said:
Yesterday I added a girl on snapchat through the friend suggestions which she accepted right away.

The thing is this girl used to be one of my friends GF a few years back, i only briefly know her ( saw her a couple of times when she was with my mate).

I feel like it would be awkward if i texted her out of the blue just like that. At first I thought about waiting to see if she responds to some of my snapchats to monitor her interest.
Maybe you guys have some ideas how I could reach out without appearing cringy
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Ok fair enough but it was over 3 years ago and as far as i know she was in other relationship (s) since then. Plus i rarely see him nowadays since highshool is over.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bro code.
Check in with your friend. If he genuinely doesn't appear hesitant, go for it.

I personally avoid these situations because there are so many other girls out there.
 
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darksprezzatura said:
Bro code.
Check in with your friend. If he genuinely doesn't appear hesitant, go for it.

Personally I avoid these situations because there are so many other girls out there.
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Sure thing i don't want to annoy him, I just saw the opportunity and thought why not
 
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how good of a bro? are we talking outter circle acquaintance or are we talking your bros you chill with daily? makes a big diff.


If it was a real bro you shouldnt have even added the hoe.


otherwise, go ahead and proceed as you wish. no need to ask permission thats beta chit.
 
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Julian said:
how good of a bro? are we talking outter circle acquaintance or are we talking your bros you chill with daily? makes a big diff.


If it was a real bro you shouldnt have even added the hoe.


otherwise, go ahead and proceed as you wish. no need to ask permission thats beta chit.
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Well we saw each other daily 3 years ago in high school. Since then it has fidled out and i only see him rarely, last time was at my birthday back in april.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Prodoge said:
Well we saw each other daily 3 years ago in high school. Since then it has fidled out and i only see him rarely, last time was at my birthday back in april.
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She hasn't been with him for a few years and you rarely see him. She's fair game now.
 
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Prodoge said:
How would you start a conversation then ?
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Let's get together for drinks and catch up. (old friend or acquaintance mode) She will let you know if it's doable.
Don't get stuck talking about the past if you get the date though. Go into regular first date mode asap.
 
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billtx49 said:
Let's get together for drinks and catch up. (old friend or acquaintance mode) She will let you know if it's doable.
Don't get stuck talking about the past if you get the date though. Go into regular first date mode asap.
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Welp i messaged her, lets see what she has to say
 
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Prodoge said:
How would you start a conversation then ?
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Long time no see.....how have you been?

If she is interested, she'll pick up the convo. If she starts asking questions showing interest, ask her to drinks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Woman can be a bit weird when it comes to texting.

I briefly met a Chinese lady about a month ago in the street with a mutual acquaintance. I sensed from her that she was interested in meeting me.

Cue forward two weeks, and I finally bump into her on the street again. I stop here, say hello, and get her number. Why not right?

Text her something like 'Hi.. me here.. and how was the event you were going to?'

No reply. Radio silence for two weeks. Oh well, another one bites the dust I suppose.

Then out of the blue, she invites me to a small concert going on.
 
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