"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Would any of you really date a posrtn star or dancer?
- Thread starter eliseo
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
YawataNoKami
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taiyuu_otoko
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Would I date a chick built like Jayden? F*ck yes. With that being said, though the thought of it seems hella cool, I couldn't have a dancing booty movie girl as a girlfriend.eliseo said:Would you date a jayden james type of girl?
Fact of the matter is that it takes a certain kinda of woman to work in that industry. "Normal," women have issues, now couple with a chick who's in the sex industry. Chances are she's comes from a f*cked up household where her mama was constantly tellin' that she wasn't sh*t, her dad wasn't around, and her uncle was touchin' on and gettin' in the bed with her.
She probably only has a GED or high school diploma, (assuming that she even graduated high school at all. The b*tch is probably half a alcoholic, or has a sniffin' habit, (be it powder or dope,) and doing mollies is par for the course.
Then you have to deal with tricks and simps that are vying for her attention and you have to constantly keep in the back of your mind if the price is right will that b*tch turn a trick.
At this time in my life, Rex doesn't have the time nor the patience to deal with a stripper/booty movie girl and the only way I would consider it is if she was slidin' ya boy some of those hoe dollars.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The majority of the strippers I have seen in my lifetime are fat, ugly, tired, and used-up looking. The stereotype of them all being hot is just not true. They are if you go to one of the best strip clubs, like Mons Venus in Tampa, but that's a top 1% club. There's 99 other seedy, sleazy dive strip bars in the Tampa Bay area with ugly skanks "dancing," which is mostly recruiting back-room prostitution.
There's a club not far from me that had a scandal over one of their dancers giving so many guys herpes at the club. One guy got it in his eye and sued. The club took that dancer and a few others and started another club about an hour away.
SeymourCake
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
On another note, have you ever noticed how porn stars (at least in their prime) try and act like they enjoy their career and are happy/content being one? Always fascinated me how they attempted to deflect the fact that they are being pumped and nutted all over continuously by tons of guys. Look at how they all turn out, that isn't what happens when you are truly content with your life. Belladonna, Jenna Jameson, they all turn into cracked out shells of a human being. I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.
On yet another note, better be careful dealing with your average run of the mill strippers. Most of those b*tches are on something, either coke or meth, and either they or their pimps will slit your throat in a heartbeat if you f*ck around.