"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Would any of you really date a posrtn star or dancer?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
YawataNoKami
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taiyuu_otoko
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Maximus Rex
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Would I date a chick built like Jayden? F*ck yes. With that being said, though the thought of it seems hella cool, I couldn't have a dancing booty movie girl as a girlfriend.eliseo said:Would you date a jayden james type of girl?
Fact of the matter is that it takes a certain kinda of woman to work in that industry. "Normal," women have issues, now couple with a chick who's in the sex industry. Chances are she's comes from a f*cked up household where her mama was constantly tellin' that she wasn't sh*t, her dad wasn't around, and her uncle was touchin' on and gettin' in the bed with her.
She probably only has a GED or high school diploma, (assuming that she even graduated high school at all. The b*tch is probably half a alcoholic, or has a sniffin' habit, (be it powder or dope,) and doing mollies is par for the course.
Then you have to deal with tricks and simps that are vying for her attention and you have to constantly keep in the back of your mind if the price is right will that b*tch turn a trick.
At this time in my life, Rex doesn't have the time nor the patience to deal with a stripper/booty movie girl and the only way I would consider it is if she was slidin' ya boy some of those hoe dollars.
Bible_Belt
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The majority of the strippers I have seen in my lifetime are fat, ugly, tired, and used-up looking. The stereotype of them all being hot is just not true. They are if you go to one of the best strip clubs, like Mons Venus in Tampa, but that's a top 1% club. There's 99 other seedy, sleazy dive strip bars in the Tampa Bay area with ugly skanks "dancing," which is mostly recruiting back-room prostitution.
There's a club not far from me that had a scandal over one of their dancers giving so many guys herpes at the club. One guy got it in his eye and sued. The club took that dancer and a few others and started another club about an hour away.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
On another note, have you ever noticed how porn stars (at least in their prime) try and act like they enjoy their career and are happy/content being one? Always fascinated me how they attempted to deflect the fact that they are being pumped and nutted all over continuously by tons of guys. Look at how they all turn out, that isn't what happens when you are truly content with your life. Belladonna, Jenna Jameson, they all turn into cracked out shells of a human being. I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.
On yet another note, better be careful dealing with your average run of the mill strippers. Most of those b*tches are on something, either coke or meth, and either they or their pimps will slit your throat in a heartbeat if you f*ck around.