"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Would any of you really date a posrtn star or dancer?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
YawataNoKami
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taiyuu_otoko
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maximus Rex
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Would I date a chick built like Jayden? F*ck yes. With that being said, though the thought of it seems hella cool, I couldn't have a dancing booty movie girl as a girlfriend.eliseo said:Would you date a jayden james type of girl?
Fact of the matter is that it takes a certain kinda of woman to work in that industry. "Normal," women have issues, now couple with a chick who's in the sex industry. Chances are she's comes from a f*cked up household where her mama was constantly tellin' that she wasn't sh*t, her dad wasn't around, and her uncle was touchin' on and gettin' in the bed with her.
She probably only has a GED or high school diploma, (assuming that she even graduated high school at all. The b*tch is probably half a alcoholic, or has a sniffin' habit, (be it powder or dope,) and doing mollies is par for the course.
Then you have to deal with tricks and simps that are vying for her attention and you have to constantly keep in the back of your mind if the price is right will that b*tch turn a trick.
At this time in my life, Rex doesn't have the time nor the patience to deal with a stripper/booty movie girl and the only way I would consider it is if she was slidin' ya boy some of those hoe dollars.
Bible_Belt
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The majority of the strippers I have seen in my lifetime are fat, ugly, tired, and used-up looking. The stereotype of them all being hot is just not true. They are if you go to one of the best strip clubs, like Mons Venus in Tampa, but that's a top 1% club. There's 99 other seedy, sleazy dive strip bars in the Tampa Bay area with ugly skanks "dancing," which is mostly recruiting back-room prostitution.
There's a club not far from me that had a scandal over one of their dancers giving so many guys herpes at the club. One guy got it in his eye and sued. The club took that dancer and a few others and started another club about an hour away.
SeymourCake
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
On another note, have you ever noticed how porn stars (at least in their prime) try and act like they enjoy their career and are happy/content being one? Always fascinated me how they attempted to deflect the fact that they are being pumped and nutted all over continuously by tons of guys. Look at how they all turn out, that isn't what happens when you are truly content with your life. Belladonna, Jenna Jameson, they all turn into cracked out shells of a human being. I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.
On yet another note, better be careful dealing with your average run of the mill strippers. Most of those b*tches are on something, either coke or meth, and either they or their pimps will slit your throat in a heartbeat if you f*ck around.