"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Would any of you really date a posrtn star or dancer?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
YawataNoKami
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taiyuu_otoko
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximus Rex
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Would I date a chick built like Jayden? F*ck yes. With that being said, though the thought of it seems hella cool, I couldn't have a dancing booty movie girl as a girlfriend.eliseo said:Would you date a jayden james type of girl?
Fact of the matter is that it takes a certain kinda of woman to work in that industry. "Normal," women have issues, now couple with a chick who's in the sex industry. Chances are she's comes from a f*cked up household where her mama was constantly tellin' that she wasn't sh*t, her dad wasn't around, and her uncle was touchin' on and gettin' in the bed with her.
She probably only has a GED or high school diploma, (assuming that she even graduated high school at all. The b*tch is probably half a alcoholic, or has a sniffin' habit, (be it powder or dope,) and doing mollies is par for the course.
Then you have to deal with tricks and simps that are vying for her attention and you have to constantly keep in the back of your mind if the price is right will that b*tch turn a trick.
At this time in my life, Rex doesn't have the time nor the patience to deal with a stripper/booty movie girl and the only way I would consider it is if she was slidin' ya boy some of those hoe dollars.
Bible_Belt
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The majority of the strippers I have seen in my lifetime are fat, ugly, tired, and used-up looking. The stereotype of them all being hot is just not true. They are if you go to one of the best strip clubs, like Mons Venus in Tampa, but that's a top 1% club. There's 99 other seedy, sleazy dive strip bars in the Tampa Bay area with ugly skanks "dancing," which is mostly recruiting back-room prostitution.
There's a club not far from me that had a scandal over one of their dancers giving so many guys herpes at the club. One guy got it in his eye and sued. The club took that dancer and a few others and started another club about an hour away.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
On another note, have you ever noticed how porn stars (at least in their prime) try and act like they enjoy their career and are happy/content being one? Always fascinated me how they attempted to deflect the fact that they are being pumped and nutted all over continuously by tons of guys. Look at how they all turn out, that isn't what happens when you are truly content with your life. Belladonna, Jenna Jameson, they all turn into cracked out shells of a human being. I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.
On yet another note, better be careful dealing with your average run of the mill strippers. Most of those b*tches are on something, either coke or meth, and either they or their pimps will slit your throat in a heartbeat if you f*ck around.