Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree, you want low protein, high fat, high sodium diet. And also avoid any kind of physical activity. like don't even bend over to tie your own shoes.The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.
Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.
So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol how so?Joining the gym was the biggest mistake of my life ,concerning women.
So you're saying to stay as lean as possible with muscle?The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.
Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.
So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
So you're saying to stay as lean as possible with muscle?The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.
Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.
So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
How much easier is it for you to attract bishes and get poosey when you're lean with muscle budOh it's you again.
Nah won't make a difference in fact it'll make things worse.
Women hate guys who are in shape and have muscle etc, the scrawnier the better. If you can get a nice pot belly going too, that's a bonus. Girls go wild for scrawny dudes with pot bellies.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?Working out twice a day when I was younger is the best thing I ever did for myself. Yes women love it
Confidence goes up. Women start to compliment you on your looks. Dudes think twice before trying to game your girl. It's a total game changer.Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?
Yes that is too skinny.Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What exactly do you mean by the girls as a side effect? So you're saying me getting bigger would indeed make a difference with girls correct? I get that it's not the only part of the equation.Become hot? That's a very vague and general label to put on something that is much more complicated. Woman in my experience like both. The biggest benefit to getting "bigger" is not how woman perceive you. That's the side effect. The real benefit are improved self-confidence, healthy(ier) life-style, a sense discipline, and other positive improvements.
That being said. If you looking at this on the woman side of things, then remember this is only one part of a bigger equation. If you are a super fit and muscular guy with no goals, job or ambition, then you'll probably attract the wrong women or if any at all.
I think it would benefit you to do some interspection into what's missing in your life. Remember, woman like men with abundance.
What weight do you think I should aim for?