"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would adding muscle make a difference with women?

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Would a guy become hot if he went from really skinny and scrawny to more lean and muscular? Would I get more attention and interest from girls? How does it change things with girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh it's you again.

Nah won't make a difference in fact it'll make things worse.

Women hate guys who are in shape and have muscle etc, the scrawnier the better. If you can get a nice pot belly going too, that's a bonus. Girls go wild for scrawny dudes with pot bellies.
 

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The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.

Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.

So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
 

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The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.

Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.

So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
I agree, you want low protein, high fat, high sodium diet. And also avoid any kind of physical activity. like don't even bend over to tie your own shoes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.

Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.

So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
So you're saying to stay as lean as possible with muscle?
 

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The only way to beat a skinny guy when it comes of women is either being skinny fat or fat soft.

Dont make the mistake of being the strong fat guy cause girls can see your muscles behind your fat no matter how well you dress to hyde it.

So work on your diet either by not eating anything unless starving or if you have to eat go heavy with simple sugars and saturated fats just avoid proteins whatever form they come.
So you're saying to stay as lean as possible with muscle?
Oh it's you again.

Nah won't make a difference in fact it'll make things worse.

Women hate guys who are in shape and have muscle etc, the scrawnier the better. If you can get a nice pot belly going too, that's a bonus. Girls go wild for scrawny dudes with pot bellies.
How much easier is it for you to attract bishes and get poosey when you're lean with muscle bud
 

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Its like adding hot sauce on tacos. Tacos are already good, but the sauce enhances it. Women who already like you, will like you way more. But it won't make a woman who thinks you're ugly all of a sudden want you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Working out twice a day when I was younger is the best thing I ever did for myself. Yes women love it
 

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Working out twice a day when I was younger is the best thing I ever did for myself. Yes women love it
Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?
 

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Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?
Confidence goes up. Women start to compliment you on your looks. Dudes think twice before trying to game your girl. It's a total game changer.

Being young and thin it's easy too see results too. Results that will shape your body for the rest of your life.
 

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Would you say 125lbs at 5'7" is too skinny?? How are things different when you're more lean and muscular. Do you think I'd get more attention if I got bigger?
Yes that is too skinny.

You keep on coming back and asking the same question, over and over again, and receive the same answers, over and over again, but that never seems to stop you from making another post regarding the same topic. It is time for you to make peace with the fact that bulking up does indeed create a positive difference in your meetings with women regardless of the reason why you're refusing to accept it (whether you believe you're sufficient as it is and do not need more muscle or whether you think the difference will not be observable). At the end of the day, even if adding muscle to your frame does not help you attract women, at least you're keeping yourself healthy, right? It's a worthwhile investment in yourself, which MAY produce subsequent additional benefits.
 

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Become hot? That's a very vague and general label to put on something that is much more complicated. Woman in my experience like both. The biggest benefit to getting "bigger" is not how woman perceive you. That's the side effect. The real benefit are improved self-confidence, healthy(ier) life-style, a sense discipline, and other positive improvements.

That being said. If you looking at this on the woman side of things, then remember this is only one part of a bigger equation. If you are a super fit and muscular guy with no goals, job or ambition, then you'll probably attract the wrong women or if any at all.

I think it would benefit you to do some interspection into what's missing in your life. Remember, woman like men with abundance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Become hot? That's a very vague and general label to put on something that is much more complicated. Woman in my experience like both. The biggest benefit to getting "bigger" is not how woman perceive you. That's the side effect. The real benefit are improved self-confidence, healthy(ier) life-style, a sense discipline, and other positive improvements.

That being said. If you looking at this on the woman side of things, then remember this is only one part of a bigger equation. If you are a super fit and muscular guy with no goals, job or ambition, then you'll probably attract the wrong women or if any at all.

I think it would benefit you to do some interspection into what's missing in your life. Remember, woman like men with abundance.
What exactly do you mean by the girls as a side effect? So you're saying me getting bigger would indeed make a difference with girls correct? I get that it's not the only part of the equation.
 
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