"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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worst words to hear in a coversation

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"sooo... "
"yeah....."
There isn't a word I hate than those two when I'm chatting with a girl online. Lately Ive brushed it off as they are not interested in me but they send me messages and it ends the same way. I used ask some random quitness of the conversation, but I kinda give her the same treatment.

Is there some advice or guide I can use with keeping a conversation going?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
 
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how about: stop, no & don't
 
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when you don't hear anything in a "conversation" that's when your fvcked.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sooo the rule goes like dis.....

1) email
2) IM conversation
3) text message then call
4) date

ummmm always escalate
 
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I'd prefer to hear, NO DON'T STOP
 
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WaterTiger said:
Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
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thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
 
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Freeman said:
thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
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Wow that is so true.
No lie Im removing it from my desktop.

But what about like when your with a person in person. I sometimes run into a problem with keeping the girl engaged in a conversation.
I love talking, but Im not gonna hold up the whole fvcking conversation.

Any advice?
 
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