"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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worst words to hear in a coversation

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"sooo... "
"yeah....."
There isn't a word I hate than those two when I'm chatting with a girl online. Lately Ive brushed it off as they are not interested in me but they send me messages and it ends the same way. I used ask some random quitness of the conversation, but I kinda give her the same treatment.

Is there some advice or guide I can use with keeping a conversation going?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
 
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how about: stop, no & don't
 
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when you don't hear anything in a "conversation" that's when your fvcked.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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sooo the rule goes like dis.....

1) email
2) IM conversation
3) text message then call
4) date

ummmm always escalate
 
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I'd prefer to hear, NO DON'T STOP
 
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WaterTiger said:
Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
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thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
 
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Freeman said:
thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
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Wow that is so true.
No lie Im removing it from my desktop.

But what about like when your with a person in person. I sometimes run into a problem with keeping the girl engaged in a conversation.
I love talking, but Im not gonna hold up the whole fvcking conversation.

Any advice?
 
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