"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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worst words to hear in a coversation

Lamia

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"sooo... "
"yeah....."
There isn't a word I hate than those two when I'm chatting with a girl online. Lately Ive brushed it off as they are not interested in me but they send me messages and it ends the same way. I used ask some random quitness of the conversation, but I kinda give her the same treatment.

Is there some advice or guide I can use with keeping a conversation going?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
 

lil hooligan

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how about: stop, no & don't
 

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when you don't hear anything in a "conversation" that's when your fvcked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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sooo the rule goes like dis.....

1) email
2) IM conversation
3) text message then call
4) date

ummmm always escalate
 

lil hooligan

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I'd prefer to hear, NO DON'T STOP
 

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WaterTiger said:
Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
 

Lamia

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Freeman said:
thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.

Wow that is so true.
No lie Im removing it from my desktop.

But what about like when your with a person in person. I sometimes run into a problem with keeping the girl engaged in a conversation.
I love talking, but Im not gonna hold up the whole fvcking conversation.

Any advice?
 
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