"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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worst words to hear in a coversation

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"sooo... "
"yeah....."
There isn't a word I hate than those two when I'm chatting with a girl online. Lately Ive brushed it off as they are not interested in me but they send me messages and it ends the same way. I used ask some random quitness of the conversation, but I kinda give her the same treatment.

Is there some advice or guide I can use with keeping a conversation going?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
 
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how about: stop, no & don't
 
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when you don't hear anything in a "conversation" that's when your fvcked.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sooo the rule goes like dis.....

1) email
2) IM conversation
3) text message then call
4) date

ummmm always escalate
 
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I'd prefer to hear, NO DON'T STOP
 
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WaterTiger said:
Why are you chatting online? Tell them to meet you for coffee or something. Get some real LIVE face time. Chatting on line is BORING!
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thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
 
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Freeman said:
thats some real sh#t right there-cut that online crap down-cut through the BS and set up a in person meeting at the local hot spot- If you spend too much time on the net chatting you wont have anything to really say when you finally meet trust me I know.
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Wow that is so true.
No lie Im removing it from my desktop.

But what about like when your with a person in person. I sometimes run into a problem with keeping the girl engaged in a conversation.
I love talking, but Im not gonna hold up the whole fvcking conversation.

Any advice?
 
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