"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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diablo

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Re: You guys have more drama than chicks

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Hey, do any of you guys drive pickups, wear jeans and t-shirts or anything?
I've seen enough Lexus, suit and tie, hair gel stuff on this board to make me puke.
Is there something wrong with taking care of yourself? If you want to appear slovenly, then that's your choice. Actually, I'd prefer you did - more girls for the rest of us. :p

And I think that most of us here wear jeans and T's.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WestCoaster

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Not a slob ...

... and I wear a tie to work, just don't opt to look like some guy on "Queer Eye" or something.

Read demise of the American White Male thread, might be useful and might keep you from getting those windshields destroyed on your Lexus.
 

Genghis Juan

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This wasn't a date...

I girl I know walks up to me to ask me where my friend is (in college).

Her "Do you know where (name) is?"
Me "What, do you like him or something?" (****y look)
Her SLAAAAPPPP

In front of a crowd of about 50 people at school....crazy biatch.
 

golf299

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if a girl thinks its ok just to slap you in the face like that for no apparent reason, nothing would stop me from slapping the s1ut right back. girls like that need to learn to have respect and that they can't just get away with anything.
 
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