"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So "bad female advice" is a timeless oxymoron, no doubt.

Rather than lay out the entire situation leading to the example I'm about to relay, I'll let the words speak for themselves. In, or out of context, it is only crap like this which a woman or extremely AFC guy would spout.

"Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"

Lamer advice has been given, I'm sure, but this one still resounds in my mind.

Self-analysis:

1) Maybe it's true. Do you turn tail and walk away so easily?
2) Maybe it's crap. If you walk away so easily you don't deserve that tail. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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insidious said:
..."Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"
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That guy has been playing way too much World of Warcraft.
 
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Problem is: affection nice and attraction nice is bunched up into the same term, NICE. The way to get NICE is to suck up, become a wuss, or trade something else for it.
 
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Chick's don't know what they want trust me. See WE think we know what we want. But if we do then why do chicks play "hard to get"? Its basically the same **** we are doing exept ours is far better but we lack the greatest tool of them all... the vagina.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ha, johnson, you picked up on that too - :)

my brain did a back-flip trying to work that out for a second :rolleyes:
 
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