"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Worst female avice exp.

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So "bad female advice" is a timeless oxymoron, no doubt.

Rather than lay out the entire situation leading to the example I'm about to relay, I'll let the words speak for themselves. In, or out of context, it is only crap like this which a woman or extremely AFC guy would spout.

"Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"

Lamer advice has been given, I'm sure, but this one still resounds in my mind.

Self-analysis:

1) Maybe it's true. Do you turn tail and walk away so easily?
2) Maybe it's crap. If you walk away so easily you don't deserve that tail. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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insidious said:
..."Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"
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That guy has been playing way too much World of Warcraft.
 

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Problem is: affection nice and attraction nice is bunched up into the same term, NICE. The way to get NICE is to suck up, become a wuss, or trade something else for it.
 

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Chick's don't know what they want trust me. See WE think we know what we want. But if we do then why do chicks play "hard to get"? Its basically the same **** we are doing exept ours is far better but we lack the greatest tool of them all... the vagina.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ha, johnson, you picked up on that too - :)

my brain did a back-flip trying to work that out for a second :rolleyes:
 
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