"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So "bad female advice" is a timeless oxymoron, no doubt.

Rather than lay out the entire situation leading to the example I'm about to relay, I'll let the words speak for themselves. In, or out of context, it is only crap like this which a woman or extremely AFC guy would spout.

"Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"

Lamer advice has been given, I'm sure, but this one still resounds in my mind.

Self-analysis:

1) Maybe it's true. Do you turn tail and walk away so easily?
2) Maybe it's crap. If you walk away so easily you don't deserve that tail. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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insidious said:
..."Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"
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That guy has been playing way too much World of Warcraft.
 
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Problem is: affection nice and attraction nice is bunched up into the same term, NICE. The way to get NICE is to suck up, become a wuss, or trade something else for it.
 
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Chick's don't know what they want trust me. See WE think we know what we want. But if we do then why do chicks play "hard to get"? Its basically the same **** we are doing exept ours is far better but we lack the greatest tool of them all... the vagina.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ha, johnson, you picked up on that too - :)

my brain did a back-flip trying to work that out for a second :rolleyes:
 
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