"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Worst female avice exp.

insidious

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So "bad female advice" is a timeless oxymoron, no doubt.

Rather than lay out the entire situation leading to the example I'm about to relay, I'll let the words speak for themselves. In, or out of context, it is only crap like this which a woman or extremely AFC guy would spout.

"Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"

Lamer advice has been given, I'm sure, but this one still resounds in my mind.

Self-analysis:

1) Maybe it's true. Do you turn tail and walk away so easily?
2) Maybe it's crap. If you walk away so easily you don't deserve that tail. :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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insidious said:
..."Of course she's going to be nice to you. See is such a sweet girl. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body!"
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That guy has been playing way too much World of Warcraft.
 

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Problem is: affection nice and attraction nice is bunched up into the same term, NICE. The way to get NICE is to suck up, become a wuss, or trade something else for it.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Chick's don't know what they want trust me. See WE think we know what we want. But if we do then why do chicks play "hard to get"? Its basically the same **** we are doing exept ours is far better but we lack the greatest tool of them all... the vagina.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ha, johnson, you picked up on that too - :)

my brain did a back-flip trying to work that out for a second :rolleyes:
 
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