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Worst examples of AFC'S in Movies....

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I was wondering about some movies that have the worst examples of AFC'S in movies. I want to know the movie you think is the worst and examples in movie, I know we had AFC songs so I thought to make this thread because of what I am watching.

I started to watch "I think I love my wife," just to waste time and I gotta say......HOLY FVCKING SH1T BATMAN! I mean this guy is the ultimate AFC .....actually going on a plane to help a women pick up her sh1t and gets FVCKING beat up and he still isnt tapping that....such a shame. Whats worse is that some people men AND women are going to watch this movie and for the men they will think this type of behavior will help them get hot ass women...and for women it will give them an excuse to act this way to the depraved.

Now on to your examples.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Off the top of my head,the guy in say anything,with the boombox outside her window. It's funny,in reality,he would be called a stalker,yet that's what women say is romanitc. Ya know who I think is a good movie don juan,and he's not a James Bond/Dirty Harry/Rocky Balboa/any tough guy role etc,nothing against those,I like all of them,bet Ferris Bueler. How can you watch that and not think he is the coolest guy ever?
 

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The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
 
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the kid from superbad....hes such a pvssy in that movie
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How about BEST examples of AFC's in movies?
-Zach Braff's character in Garden State
-Severus Snape

Both are clearly AFC's yet girls still love them.
 
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i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
 

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canadianmetalhead said:
i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
Not really Braff in general but his character in Garden State
 

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KillaPetehog said:
Dude..I got the one.

:D

That guy from the Notebook

BA HA HA HA!


:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Not really. He got the girl in the end. They had passion.

How is he an "AFC"?
 

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KillaPetehog said:
Eh..no he didn't.
Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
 

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Definately Mikey from Swingers. We all know a guy or two like that.

I'd also say the guy from Office Space (the weird guy who loves his stapler) is what I consider the embodiment of an AFC. Not because of how he interacts with women (I don't think he does interact with women in the movie), but the way he lets his boss and all the others in the office walk all over him. Not to mention how turns out to be the typical passive-aggressive type (when he burns the place). Being an AFC is so much more than how one behaves around women. Chances are if you tolerate flat-out disrespect from others, that lack of spine/assertiveness carries over into your love life as well.
 

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I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
 

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Blackmm said:
The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
holy shiut i was thinking that. thats probably THE best example. thats a surprisingly rough ending for an eighties movie. but real.
 

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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.

yeah i know a kid who gets laid allot and he hammers girls phones. psycho calls them constantly. yet they still show up. maybe because he is a doctor lol
 

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Purple-Haze said:
Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
yeah i think thats what he means
 

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BlakeW5 said:
Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
Well, when the girl rejects him you can tell he's upset even if he hooks up with a different girl the next day.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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