Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Worst examples of AFC'S in Movies....

j0n024

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I was wondering about some movies that have the worst examples of AFC'S in movies. I want to know the movie you think is the worst and examples in movie, I know we had AFC songs so I thought to make this thread because of what I am watching.

I started to watch "I think I love my wife," just to waste time and I gotta say......HOLY FVCKING SH1T BATMAN! I mean this guy is the ultimate AFC .....actually going on a plane to help a women pick up her sh1t and gets FVCKING beat up and he still isnt tapping that....such a shame. Whats worse is that some people men AND women are going to watch this movie and for the men they will think this type of behavior will help them get hot ass women...and for women it will give them an excuse to act this way to the depraved.

Now on to your examples.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Off the top of my head,the guy in say anything,with the boombox outside her window. It's funny,in reality,he would be called a stalker,yet that's what women say is romanitc. Ya know who I think is a good movie don juan,and he's not a James Bond/Dirty Harry/Rocky Balboa/any tough guy role etc,nothing against those,I like all of them,bet Ferris Bueler. How can you watch that and not think he is the coolest guy ever?
 

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The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
 
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the kid from superbad....hes such a pvssy in that movie
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How about BEST examples of AFC's in movies?
-Zach Braff's character in Garden State
-Severus Snape

Both are clearly AFC's yet girls still love them.
 
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i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
 

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canadianmetalhead said:
i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
Not really Braff in general but his character in Garden State
 

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KillaPetehog said:
Dude..I got the one.

:D

That guy from the Notebook

BA HA HA HA!


:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Not really. He got the girl in the end. They had passion.

How is he an "AFC"?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaPetehog said:
Eh..no he didn't.
Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
 

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Definately Mikey from Swingers. We all know a guy or two like that.

I'd also say the guy from Office Space (the weird guy who loves his stapler) is what I consider the embodiment of an AFC. Not because of how he interacts with women (I don't think he does interact with women in the movie), but the way he lets his boss and all the others in the office walk all over him. Not to mention how turns out to be the typical passive-aggressive type (when he burns the place). Being an AFC is so much more than how one behaves around women. Chances are if you tolerate flat-out disrespect from others, that lack of spine/assertiveness carries over into your love life as well.
 

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I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
 

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Blackmm said:
The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
holy shiut i was thinking that. thats probably THE best example. thats a surprisingly rough ending for an eighties movie. but real.
 

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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.

yeah i know a kid who gets laid allot and he hammers girls phones. psycho calls them constantly. yet they still show up. maybe because he is a doctor lol
 

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Purple-Haze said:
Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
yeah i think thats what he means
 

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BlakeW5 said:
Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
Well, when the girl rejects him you can tell he's upset even if he hooks up with a different girl the next day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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