"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Worst examples of AFC'S in Movies....

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I was wondering about some movies that have the worst examples of AFC'S in movies. I want to know the movie you think is the worst and examples in movie, I know we had AFC songs so I thought to make this thread because of what I am watching.

I started to watch "I think I love my wife," just to waste time and I gotta say......HOLY FVCKING SH1T BATMAN! I mean this guy is the ultimate AFC .....actually going on a plane to help a women pick up her sh1t and gets FVCKING beat up and he still isnt tapping that....such a shame. Whats worse is that some people men AND women are going to watch this movie and for the men they will think this type of behavior will help them get hot ass women...and for women it will give them an excuse to act this way to the depraved.

Now on to your examples.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Off the top of my head,the guy in say anything,with the boombox outside her window. It's funny,in reality,he would be called a stalker,yet that's what women say is romanitc. Ya know who I think is a good movie don juan,and he's not a James Bond/Dirty Harry/Rocky Balboa/any tough guy role etc,nothing against those,I like all of them,bet Ferris Bueler. How can you watch that and not think he is the coolest guy ever?
 
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The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
 
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the kid from superbad....hes such a pvssy in that movie
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about BEST examples of AFC's in movies?
-Zach Braff's character in Garden State
-Severus Snape

Both are clearly AFC's yet girls still love them.
 
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i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
 
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canadianmetalhead said:
i wouldnt call zach braff an afc...hes just a dude with seriously emotinal problems. he doesnt really supplicate to the chick hes just happy cuz he can finally experience emotions again cuz hes off the drugs
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Not really Braff in general but his character in Garden State
 
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KillaPetehog said:
Dude..I got the one.

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That guy from the Notebook

BA HA HA HA!


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Not really. He got the girl in the end. They had passion.

How is he an "AFC"?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KillaPetehog said:
Eh..no he didn't.
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Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
 
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Definately Mikey from Swingers. We all know a guy or two like that.

I'd also say the guy from Office Space (the weird guy who loves his stapler) is what I consider the embodiment of an AFC. Not because of how he interacts with women (I don't think he does interact with women in the movie), but the way he lets his boss and all the others in the office walk all over him. Not to mention how turns out to be the typical passive-aggressive type (when he burns the place). Being an AFC is so much more than how one behaves around women. Chances are if you tolerate flat-out disrespect from others, that lack of spine/assertiveness carries over into your love life as well.
 
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I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
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Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
 
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The last American virgin. Gary's crush ends up falling for his friend and instead of just letting it go, he just sulks like a little b itch and pays for the abortion when she gets pregnant only for her to go back to the jerk.
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holy shiut i was thinking that. thats probably THE best example. thats a surprisingly rough ending for an eighties movie. but real.
 
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lazikia said:
I've actually known a guy who is a big DJ and gets girls frequently, yet I've witnessed him do that phone thing that Mikey from Swingers does.
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yeah i know a kid who gets laid allot and he hammers girls phones. psycho calls them constantly. yet they still show up. maybe because he is a doctor lol
 
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Ohhh, you mean the other guy. Not the main male lead. The one who proposed to her and then got rejected in the end?
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yeah i think thats what he means
 
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Do girls actually come back to him after he pulls such a stunt or does he get them before they see that side of him?
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Well, when the girl rejects him you can tell he's upset even if he hooks up with a different girl the next day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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