So in other words you look for excuses in finding high quality chicks that you claim to want.
tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Worst "advice" you've ever gotten from the Manosphere or other djs
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tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
devilkingx2
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everyone knows these things, but not the extent to which they are true
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No, there are no "in other words" lol. Just answer the question bro lol! If you can't answer it, trust me, I understand because I can't either!
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Already attend these places bro lol
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
some dudes get reamed in divorce. others are happy to be divorced. some dudes lose their minds when a chick dumps them others move on and find someone better or simply are happy to be single again.
"truth" is subjective. to take "advice" from those who themselves say they were "unaware" for God knows how many years and now "woke up" yet spread their anger and resentment continuously disguised as "help" is nothing more than misery loves company.
And every chick at them is low quality pof material. riiiighto.
you are your own worst enemy
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I did not say that.
So what's your excuse? Many other dudes find these chicks why can't you? Give yourself some credit bro. You're a smart dude.
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I don't know about many guys finding these 1% unicorns bro.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know several been married for years. both the dudes and the chicks personally.
some met growing up together. some met at clubs. some through social circles. real talk.
Found one. 10/10, doctor, classy exterior and freak in bed, and I let that ***** ruin me. Unicorns can fvck right off too. Smash and next, fvck it.
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If she fvcked U and left....how is she a unicorn? We have to get a strict definition of unicorn/1%, my definition is that she's a TRADITIONAL chick without baggage.
We were together for almost 3 years and were engaged before it ended. I wish she'd fvcked and split. Could have some prime years of my life back.
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This is probably the most informative thread I've seen on this forum since I joined.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.