So in other words you look for excuses in finding high quality chicks that you claim to want.
tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Worst "advice" you've ever gotten from the Manosphere or other djs
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tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
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everyone knows these things, but not the extent to which they are true
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No, there are no "in other words" lol. Just answer the question bro lol! If you can't answer it, trust me, I understand because I can't either!
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Already attend these places bro lol
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
some dudes get reamed in divorce. others are happy to be divorced. some dudes lose their minds when a chick dumps them others move on and find someone better or simply are happy to be single again.
"truth" is subjective. to take "advice" from those who themselves say they were "unaware" for God knows how many years and now "woke up" yet spread their anger and resentment continuously disguised as "help" is nothing more than misery loves company.
And every chick at them is low quality pof material. riiiighto.
you are your own worst enemy
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I did not say that.
So what's your excuse? Many other dudes find these chicks why can't you? Give yourself some credit bro. You're a smart dude.
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I don't know about many guys finding these 1% unicorns bro.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I know several been married for years. both the dudes and the chicks personally.
some met growing up together. some met at clubs. some through social circles. real talk.
Found one. 10/10, doctor, classy exterior and freak in bed, and I let that ***** ruin me. Unicorns can fvck right off too. Smash and next, fvck it.
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If she fvcked U and left....how is she a unicorn? We have to get a strict definition of unicorn/1%, my definition is that she's a TRADITIONAL chick without baggage.
We were together for almost 3 years and were engaged before it ended. I wish she'd fvcked and split. Could have some prime years of my life back.
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This is probably the most informative thread I've seen on this forum since I joined.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.