So in other words you look for excuses in finding high quality chicks that you claim to want.
tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
devilkingx2
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everyone knows these things, but not the extent to which they are true
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No, there are no "in other words" lol. Just answer the question bro lol! If you can't answer it, trust me, I understand because I can't either!
dance class, yoga, social circles, after work happy hours for professionals, through family, art shows, museums, volunteering.
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Already attend these places bro lol
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
some dudes get reamed in divorce. others are happy to be divorced. some dudes lose their minds when a chick dumps them others move on and find someone better or simply are happy to be single again.
"truth" is subjective. to take "advice" from those who themselves say they were "unaware" for God knows how many years and now "woke up" yet spread their anger and resentment continuously disguised as "help" is nothing more than misery loves company.
And every chick at them is low quality pof material. riiiighto.
you are your own worst enemy
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I did not say that.
So what's your excuse? Many other dudes find these chicks why can't you? Give yourself some credit bro. You're a smart dude.
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I don't know about many guys finding these 1% unicorns bro.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I know several been married for years. both the dudes and the chicks personally.
some met growing up together. some met at clubs. some through social circles. real talk.
Found one. 10/10, doctor, classy exterior and freak in bed, and I let that ***** ruin me. Unicorns can fvck right off too. Smash and next, fvck it.
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If she fvcked U and left....how is she a unicorn? We have to get a strict definition of unicorn/1%, my definition is that she's a TRADITIONAL chick without baggage.
We were together for almost 3 years and were engaged before it ended. I wish she'd fvcked and split. Could have some prime years of my life back.
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This is probably the most informative thread I've seen on this forum since I joined.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.