So in other words you look for excuses in finding high quality chicks that you claim to want.
tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Worst "advice" you've ever gotten from the Manosphere or other djs
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tell me what in life was perfect in your improvement.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
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everyone knows these things, but not the extent to which they are true
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No, there are no "in other words" lol. Just answer the question bro lol! If you can't answer it, trust me, I understand because I can't either!
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Already attend these places bro lol
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
some dudes get reamed in divorce. others are happy to be divorced. some dudes lose their minds when a chick dumps them others move on and find someone better or simply are happy to be single again.
"truth" is subjective. to take "advice" from those who themselves say they were "unaware" for God knows how many years and now "woke up" yet spread their anger and resentment continuously disguised as "help" is nothing more than misery loves company.
And every chick at them is low quality pof material. riiiighto.
you are your own worst enemy
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I did not say that.
So what's your excuse? Many other dudes find these chicks why can't you? Give yourself some credit bro. You're a smart dude.
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I don't know about many guys finding these 1% unicorns bro.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know several been married for years. both the dudes and the chicks personally.
some met growing up together. some met at clubs. some through social circles. real talk.
Found one. 10/10, doctor, classy exterior and freak in bed, and I let that ***** ruin me. Unicorns can fvck right off too. Smash and next, fvck it.
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If she fvcked U and left....how is she a unicorn? We have to get a strict definition of unicorn/1%, my definition is that she's a TRADITIONAL chick without baggage.
We were together for almost 3 years and were engaged before it ended. I wish she'd fvcked and split. Could have some prime years of my life back.
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This is probably the most informative thread I've seen on this forum since I joined.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.