"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Worried about political climate

doctor1996

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I am worried about the current political climate. For instance, I am talking with one girl, and if I ask her to hang out, it will be my third time asking, and I don't feel like asking. I don't want to be reported for harassment.

Or lets say, we end up hanging out, and each have a drink.. and it leads to something else.. She goes and reports for me lets say "rape", my future will be ruined.

Is it better if I just go to clubs, and bars to meet women?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Papa_smu

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doctor1996 said:
But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
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I heard if you take a picture of you and your date kissing, there is more evidence in your favor. Of course this what I heard, I wouldn't take it as legal advice
 
wifehunter

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Learn to like prison! lolz!:p

No risk after that!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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doctor1996 said:
But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
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Go in slow and get in her face. Then STOP. She will meet your lips if she wants to be kissed. She will turn her head or back away if she doesn't.

Be a "close talker" with women. Its a very easy way to gauge interest. Always talk to them very close and get in their face.
 
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