"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Worried about political climate

doctor1996

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I am worried about the current political climate. For instance, I am talking with one girl, and if I ask her to hang out, it will be my third time asking, and I don't feel like asking. I don't want to be reported for harassment.

Or lets say, we end up hanging out, and each have a drink.. and it leads to something else.. She goes and reports for me lets say "rape", my future will be ruined.

Is it better if I just go to clubs, and bars to meet women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Papa_smu

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doctor1996 said:
But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
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I heard if you take a picture of you and your date kissing, there is more evidence in your favor. Of course this what I heard, I wouldn't take it as legal advice
 
wifehunter

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Learn to like prison! lolz!:p

No risk after that!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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doctor1996 said:
But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
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Go in slow and get in her face. Then STOP. She will meet your lips if she wants to be kissed. She will turn her head or back away if she doesn't.

Be a "close talker" with women. Its a very easy way to gauge interest. Always talk to them very close and get in their face.
 
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