Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Worried about political climate

doctor1996

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I am worried about the current political climate. For instance, I am talking with one girl, and if I ask her to hang out, it will be my third time asking, and I don't feel like asking. I don't want to be reported for harassment.

Or lets say, we end up hanging out, and each have a drink.. and it leads to something else.. She goes and reports for me lets say "rape", my future will be ruined.

Is it better if I just go to clubs, and bars to meet women?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Papa_smu

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But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
I heard if you take a picture of you and your date kissing, there is more evidence in your favor. Of course this what I heard, I wouldn't take it as legal advice
 

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Learn to like prison! lolz!:p

No risk after that!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Urbanyst

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But in general.. How can you avoid this. Okay, lets say I hang out with a new chick. Go in for a kiss, and then the next day I get reported to the university police.. I'm screwed. How can I take risks?
Go in slow and get in her face. Then STOP. She will meet your lips if she wants to be kissed. She will turn her head or back away if she doesn't.

Be a "close talker" with women. Its a very easy way to gauge interest. Always talk to them very close and get in their face.
 
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