That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Drum&Bass said:Incline Bench Press
Warm up
Warm up w Bar
warm up with 65lbs
10 x 95
6 x 115
4 x 135
3 x 155
2 x 185
3 x 205
3 x 225
2 x 225
1 x 225
1 x 225
etc.. till I can't push 225 any more
then I'll drop down to..
1 x 205
etc.. till I can't do 205 anymore
Close grip push ups with plates on my back
5 X BW
10 x 45lbs
6 x 55lbs
4 x 70lbs
3 x 90lbs
I don't ever have a set number of reps when I Incline bench press, the only rule I have is to gauge how good I feel and never hit failure until I get into the 200 range. I don't have set number of reps for any of the lifts I perform. The only thing I try to do is lift heavier than my previous week.
If I am doing speed lifting then I will do a set of 15 or 20 reps.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I havent done them in awhile...I stumbled across these pull ups called wide grip sternum pull ups and sternum chin ups. I focus on pulling explosively and they leave me WRECKED ! only using bodyweight..At some point in time Im gonna add weight but its gonna be awhile before revert back to regular pull ups after doing these.how are those weighted chins coming?
HELL YEA !!! I had a competition with one of my co-workers, we were doing 1 rep max arm exercises and then we got to dips..I banged out 5 reps with 120lbs strapped to my waist..I could have done more but I was hungry. i dont do them often but my triceps usually retain mass and strength easily so I dont have to work very hard on them.Do you do weighted dips?
thanks !! I work out with a few people that are on the american olympic weightlifting team, I've always wanted to compete and its definitely something i'd enjoy working for.I was looking back at your other number... the 265 x 1 jerk is awesome! You should consider competing in olympic weight lifting!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.